Sunday, December 28, 2008

Medical School Update

After 5 months of silence (+ a few rejection letters) my husband was finally invited to interview! Derek actually received the email on December 23, 2008 but we stopped checking his email daily because it became depressing. Derek will be interviewing for West Virginia College of Osteopathic Medicine in January!




We were surprised to get an invitation because it was such a prestigious school. It was voted top 10 by US News for 10 consecutive years.



I was so excited and I of course let all of our family know. Most responses were "Wow thats so far!" but we are honestly just so excited after so many months of waiting. I plan on flying out with Derek this time, I'd like to be a support and tour the school with him.



I'm glad that I have family and former roommates in the East coast. Hopefully we get in this year...I'm sure I can go through this again next year ( I will if I have to of course though).

Friday, December 19, 2008

Life with Skofeild







Skofeild is almost 6 months old. He's grown so fast and physically, he is so big that most people refer to him as a dog rather than a puppy. Life with Skofeild is interesting, at 2 months he knew how to sit, shake and lay down. We were so proud of him, we would show off his intelligence at any chance we received. At 6 months he has regressed, he rarely makes an effort to please us with obedience unless we have a treat. Lately Skofeild has been having "Potty" accidents in the apartment (although he was pretty much house broken at 2 1/2 months). He has either broken or destroyed our most treasured possessions...well my treasured possessions. When Skofeild ate my glasses I didn't get too upset, I figured it was my fault for leaving them in an accessibly range. When he pulled down Derek's Apple laptop by its cord, I figured it was my husbands fault for rough housing with him but when he ate my shoes I was furious. I gave him a good spanking, similar to the ones I received as a child; the kind that I know were done out of anger rather than love. I felt bad later, for the remainder of the day Skofeild avoided me by running into the bathroom and jumping into the tub. It's funny to think that his behavior resembled mine after I received a spanking from my wicked step-parents. I really don't plan on spanking my kids for that reason. Skofeild really is preparing me for parenthood. I get so frustrated but I know that I need to stop humanizing him, but he lives with us, he's indoor 99% of the time I tend to feel bad when I don't give him enough attention.





The other day was my breaking point. I had returned home to pick up my drivers licence before taking my mother to the airport. When I saw Skofeild with his little sad puppy dog face, I felt bad that he had spent nearly the whole day in his cage. I decided to let him out although I would be absent for some time before I returned. I picked up everything that he could possibly get into before I left. Upon my return, I opened my bedroom door and there was tissue, ripped pieces of cardboard scattered everywhere. I scanned the room trying to figure out what it was and it turned out that he had found a hidden Christmas present that my husband had hidden underneath the bed. I boiling! Not only did Skofeild rip through the bag and the two boxes, he got to a brand new pair of boots! I was so ticked I called my husband in frustration, I said " I love my boots too bad theres bites marks all over them!" The worst of it all is that they don't fit, what normal store would take them back? So for any of you interested in some way cute boots size 10 ( not true to size, more like a 9 1/2), come and get them! (As long as you don't mind bite marks on them).

p.s The pictures above are not the boots I was supposed to receive for Christmas, I'm still depressed about them so I couldn't post pictures of how ridiculous they look now.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

WorkaHolic


I've been working a lot. I didn't think anyone would notice my lack of posts but after a concerned email from my buddy Jolynn, I guess it's time for an update. I'm a full time employee at CDC and a part time employee at Youth City. After a 12 hour day the last thing I want to do as look at my computer. I guess I could blog at work, but I'm way too busy getting billions of phone calls from distressed people who are about to lose their homes. At my evening job I'm too busy trying to keep the teenagers in line. I've had a lot of fun adventures that I plan to post in the future.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Home Sweet Home!

NOVEMBER 18-21, 2008
I didn't do much but go to my training while I was in Los Angeles. I'm not big on walking the streets of downtown L.A after dark. The top questions I received in Los Angeles from my fellow colleagues and random people on the streets:

1. "Want to go out for drinks?" No thanks I'm good...after inviting me day after day, my colleagues realized that I'm not one to go out for drinks

2. "So where are you from? ...There are BLACK PEOPLE IN UTAH?" ...many of the brown folks in Utah are bi-racial like myself!

3. "How much do you get paid?" Not enough!

The perks of an overpriced hotel. My review of the Biltmore Millenium Hotel of Los Angeles.
-Internet usage $10/per day or $1/minute in the Business Center
-A slamming Magnabox big screen t.v
-$10/day for a refridgerator

-A hot tub so big the maximum occupancy is 3 people! When a hairy old stranger decided to get in the hot tub with me, I felt as if we were sharing a tub!
-Long scary hallways
-Sweet sounds of screaming drunks and loud cars all night long

Don't get me wrong, I did have some fun though. I hung out with a few buddies and ate really well but by the end of the week I was ecstatic about meeting up with my hubby in San Fransisco.

NOVEMBER 22-24, 2008

On Saturday my honey bunny planned to go to the South Embarcadero Mall and walk through the Piers on the shoreline. We got a little lost in downtown San Fransisco (in the GHETTO) and nearly got into several accidents due to the severely steep hills (our car rolled back ten feet! good thing there was no one behind us!) We finally made to the Embarcadero, Derek was so excited to get a plate of sea food. We walked through the farmers market and the indoor food market. I was impressed by their specialty cheeses, mushrooms, breads and even flavored olive oils for dipping the bread. My husband has definitely introduced me to the finer things of life when it comes to great food (Nia you definitely would have loved it!).






We finally got around eating the long awaited sea food. Derek was disappointed when the waitress brought out his $25 dollar plate of 3 prawgs, 6 oysters, 3 clams all RAW! Errg even my stomach turned at the sight of it. I played it safe and got a smoked salmon sandwich but even that was served uncooked but I ate it anyway. Derek was a good sport and ate it all ( he smothered them in sauce and just swallowed).

On Sunday we went to back Hayward, the last area that I served in as a missionary. We went to sacrament meeting and it was so good to sing the hymns in Spanish and listen to the talks in Spanish. It made me so happy to visit with those that were recently baptized when I was a missionary, still faithfully attending church. I taught Marcos Funez when he was a little 11-year old and now he's 16. He's taller than me and has a voice so deep I bearly recognized his voice when I spoke to him. His grandmother, mi abuela cooked some amazing Carniasada...mmm I ate sooo good as a missionary.




We later visited the temple (we convinced Marcos to come along). I have so many memories there, we took all our investigators there. I love that temple. We walked around the temple while Marcos told us about his plans to serve a mission, return and enroll into school to become a fire fighter and eventually get married in the Oakland temple. That little boy has his whole life planned out. Derek and I just listened to him in amazement.







On Monday the weather was great again and we hit up the second hand thrift stores. California has the best thrift stores, I bought a lot of name brand dress pants for work and jeans. We of course found better sea food and ate ...and ate... and ate until we had to board the plane to come home to Utah. Brrr it's so cold outside.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

"I'm goin...goin back to Cali...Cali"

The quote above is actually a rap song, by Tupac...I thought i'd mention that in case you were wondering.

My job is sending me to another training for a whole week, this time in Los Angeles, California. I'm a Bi-lingual Housing Counselor, if you haven't noticed by all the news, foreclosure is on the rise. It's predicted to be worse next year so my company is gearing up early. I hate leaving my husband, (and now my puppy Skofeild too) but I guess that's life. I enjoy my job, hopefully my experience through it will help me get a job (wherever we end up moving for medical school) or help me get accepted into graduate school.
At least my company tries to compensate me by putting me up in a snazzy hotel and paying for all my food...but that still doesn't make up for sleepless nights with out my husband by my side.



The great thing about my trip to California is that I get to visit with my long lost friends. I attended a pre-graduate program at UCLA during the summer of 2006 so I'm excited to catch up with my UCLA buddies.

I also planned to visit my mom in San Fransisco and if everything goes as plan my hubby will meet up with me and I get to take him back to my mission in Oakland! I'm so excited!!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Irksome Things

We’ve all had our experiences with homeless people at one point or another in our lives. I guess I can say that I’ve had quiet a bit since I decided to work at the YWCA for a whole year (a battered women’s shelter) right after I graduated from college. I must say that my perspective has changed dramatically after working day after day for people who were 90% ungrateful and oblivious to the services meant to improve their lives to the point of self-empowerment and eventual self-sufficiency.

Last week my husband and I went shopping at my favorite store, the Desert Industries thrift store. Out in front of the entrance sat a young homeless man. I have no problem ignoring those that ask me for money but I have an excessively kind husband. The conversation went something like this,

Homeless guy
(he put on an especially sad face to gain more sympathy): “Hey do ya got any money?”

My husband: “Sorry, I don’t carry cash”

Me: Thinking ‘is he really begging for money in front of the D.I and why the heck does my husband feel obligated to tell this stranger the reason why he can’t give him money?’ “Hun lets GO!”

Homeless guy: “I bet you guys have a fridge full of food!”

Me: Half way between the open door thinking, ‘ so does the Road Home, The Crossroads center, The Salvation Army and the Bishops Storehouse…you’re downtown the Mecca of free services to the homeless!’

He managed to ruffle my husbands’ feathers (which by the way aren’t easily ruffled)
My husband: “Yeah because we WORK 40-60 hours a week!”

Me: Motioning and calling to my husband to come inside already ‘do we really want to spend our time arguing with this stranger?

After purchasing the items we were looking for, we headed towards the door hoping the homeless guy had sought out a better destination to beg for money. He still sat there staring, as we walked by he said “Back to the Suburbs”.

I have issues with people who don’t want to work. Sure, I have my days when I don’t but I do it because it’s a necessary means of survival. I can go on and on about how I feel about the socialized programs that our new president plans to implement but I’m sure we are all tired of hearing about politics.

FYI: I received several “congratulations… someone of color like yourself has been elected to the highest office in America!” phone calls. Yes, history has been made in America by our first African-American president. However, I did not vote based on race, but who would get the job done. Now that Obama is our president, I support him I hope that he will make good changes in America.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Family Halloween Party

We finally got a chance to enjoy Halloween! My brother and his family decided to have a party and invite our 1st cousins.




Derek & I finally had a reason to dress up this Halloween.I wore my sister Christinas' old prom dress and Derek wore an old suit that he bought from his mission in South Carolina.



This is a slide show that isn't functioning properly...I'll figure out what I did wrong and fix it later.




We played our own version of Pictionary/Acting.




We played doughnut on a string with the kids and the adults, it was so funny to watch.

Monday, October 27, 2008

October Traditions

Last year my husband and I started several new traditions for October. We usually go on a double date to a haunted house and we also make carmel apples and carve pumpkins with our family. This year was a lot of fun because the boys are a little older and they get really excited when Derek and I visit.

Last year we didn't have a double broiler so our apples were coated in carmel so hard that I was afraid it would pull the fillings in my teeth off. The apples were so hard they would have shattered if we had dropped them on the ground.

This year Braxton was really excited about decorating his apple with reeses pieces, milk chocolate and white chocolate. We all had a blast as we tried to create something different with our apples. My brother Steve got a little sick after eating his apple (it was triple coated in a variety of candy).

Afterwards we carved pumkins, unfortunately by that time my battery of my camera died.

We'll be having our family Halloween party this Friday, we're so excited to get dressed up.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Mi vida loca

It's been awhile since my last post. I'm so tired, I go to bed each night at 12am and it isn't helping me get to work on time. I pretty much just work...my life isn't too exciting, speaking of work I'll be starting my new part-time job this week. I'm a Youth Coordinator for YOUTH CITY. It's going to be my fun, service-oriented, make a difference in this world job. I've been wanting to do more service, but my time is limited so I decided to feel good about my service to high risk youth and get paid for it (it'll be my bonus for stress related to human behavior).
THE END

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Family photos

We received our photos from our photography today and these are just a few of my favorites.

We could not get Skofeild to look at the camera for anything, in this shot he is staring at Audric.



My husband looks so hot in this picture!



Audric is such a cute kid (so is Braxten), hopefully my children are as cute as our niece and nephews if so I'll have to talk Derek into having more than two children!




The family photos were difficult because we couldn't get everyone to look at the camera.




Sunday, September 28, 2008

Saturday w/ my BFF'S

Susiane got tickets to attend the General Relief Society Conference and invited Alithie and I. We really haven't hung out alone since we got married so it was nice to spend some time together.







My sister came over on Sunday after a 2-day sleep over with friends. She got stung by a bee and none of the adults from her supposed friends house even bothered to call us. Who does that? Siloni could bearly walk because her foot was so swollen. I'm anti-sleep over, my kids will probably hate me for that ( I know I hated that my dad never let me sleep over my friends house either!) but the world is so corrupt now days, I really don't trust anyone but my immediate family members.



We got her some Benadryl cream and pills to help with the itching and swelling.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Family Photo SNEAK PEEK!

My mom is usually all small talk when it comes to talking to me (... I guess I'm too strong headed and blunt for her to want to talk to me. I'm a little too fiapoto for her sometimes. Lately I've tried to make more of our usually short conversations by updating her on Derek's progress on medical school applications, it's starting to sink in that we may be possibly moving far far away for two to four long years (hopefully she'll have a couple grandchildren by the time we return). When I suggested family photos my mom agreed that it would be a good idea since my family hasn't taken family photos since before my mission in 2003.
I found our photographer on KSL, I know my family doesn't like to spend much on things like photos so I tried to go cheap. My friend Molly moved away so I couldn't call her up (she probably would have gave me a deal and I always love how our pictures turn out, she took my pre-wedding and wedding pictures). Our photographer posted our pics on her blog, check them out. http://www.megankunzphotography.blogspot.com/. I wasn't too satisfied with the way I look (but i'm to blame for that), the family pics were o.k, she didn't really know how to organize us or get the kids or our puppy to look at her. I guess we were overwhelming ( I noticed she raised her prices after our family). I did however love the pics of my brother's family, especially my nephews but it's really not hard to take pictures of super cute kids. I don't mean to sound like a downer, I just have high expectations of photographers (Molly set the standard pretty high).

Monday, September 22, 2008

Roommie Reunion

On Saturday after our family pictures, we met up with Rachael and Brad, they just moved back from Alaska and were in SLC for the weekend. Susiane and Jon came over as well and we just hung out and caught up on life. We played the game Catch Phrase and it was so hilarious, we’re all pretty much newly married (Rachael & Brad being the most recent this year in February) and our husbands haven’t really gotten to know each other well yet. Catch Phrase is the perfect icebreaker; the guys took the lead and didn’t even give in a little to let us win, they won all three times. Here’s a few snapshots of our fun times.






In the last few pics I was trying to work the timer, it only gave me 2 seconds before it took!

Hanging out with my old roomies got me thinking about our fun times in good ole’ Rexburg, Idaho. I pretty much grew up together with Susiane; thankfully she decided to go to Ricks so I had no drama (like other’s often do) finding a great roommate. Susiane and I met Rachael our freshman year in our ghetto-but-large apartment Regent Village. I ran into Rachael (who at the time very timid) in the laundry room, she immediately apologized for having taken out my load of laundry. I didn’t mind, I shrugged and I responded “I would have done the same thing if I had been waiting.” Rachael lived in the apartment above us and after getting better acquainted with she confessed to calling her mom the night she met me. She frantically told her mother that two brown girls lived in the apartment below her, her mother reassured her that if she was nice to us, we’d be nice to her. Luckily she listened to her moms counsel; we’ve become the best of friends! I later visited Soda Springs, Idaho where Rachael is originally from, I quickly realized why she reacted the way she did when we me, there was no color out there whatsoever!


I have a ton of pictures with Rachael and Susiane, when I say ‘a ton’, I mean I have more pictures with them than I do with my own family members. I thought I’d include some of my favorite pictures from our college days. I’m so glad I left home to go to college, it was so much fun. Rexburg wasn’t always the most entertaining place to live but we made our own fun as you can see by the pictures. I also have some video footage that is super embarrassing, once I get the motivation to figure out how to put it on my blog, I will.

Yes, we ate this burger but we split it up in to four pieces. This restaurant had pictures throughout it of past customers who actually ate the whole burger. Becca lives back in her hometown Kentucky, we still visit with her once a year when she comes down to visit her in-laws.




Every Monday night after our ward FHE we had our “Tribal Meetings” our objective was to pamper ourselves which included painting our nails, waxing, plucking and face masks. I have worse pictures of when Susiane and I discovered that waxing / plucking (yes we plucked the excess hair that wasn’t removed by the wax) our pits awarded great results especially since we danced for the Polynesian Club and our pits were so musky looking from shaving so much (you would understand if you had dark hair and lighter skin). I didn’t want to embarrass ourselves Susiane so I decided not to include that picture.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

8 Things

My sister-in-law tagged me so here goes...

8 TV shows I love to watch
Prison Break
Oprah
Lost
Biggest Loser
Law & Order
CSI
Martha Stewart Living
Spanish soaps (pretty dramatic)


8 Favorite restaurants

Cafe Rio
Trio
Mazza
Cheesecake Factory
Olive Garden
...we don't go out enough for me to have 8 favorite restraunts

8 Things that happened yesterday
Dropped my husband off to get his hair cut and went to my weight watcher meeting
Got an oil change
Cleaned up Skofeild's crap, that's how he rewards me after I feed him! (I humanize our pet too much, I know)
Left my keys in the key insert of the car door. Thank goodness a friendly driver made it a point to get our attention to tell us about it. By then we had been driving 80 MPH past Ogden.
Tried to get my whole family to a photo shoot on time but that never happens!
Bruised my back when I tried to jump on the tree for a cool pose
Returned home on time from our family pics for my x-roommie get together, the Huntsman's just moved back from Alaska
Made pumpkin cookies
Played catchphrase!

8 things I am looking forward to
Derek getting accepted to Med school
Finding employment where ever Derek gets accepted
Having children
Visiting my mission again in November
Having an obedient dog
Getting our air conditioner fixed (it has been leaking since we've moved in!)
Owning a vehicle (my car broke down in May since then I've been biking to work but it has been getting to cold for that)
Owning our own home


8 things on my wish list

Debt free
That I could finally decide what I would like to do (career wise)
We had washer & dryer hookups w/ a washer and dryer. Coin op is too expensive and driving out to do our laundry at our families homes is too time consuming.
I could sing like Mariah Carey and play piano like Alisha Keys
I didn't have to think about every thing I eat and count calories
My mom didn't live so far away (California)
I could speak my parents native languages fluently (Tongan & Creole)
My sisters Kura and Nia didn't live so far away (Georgia)


8 people I'm tagging

Rach & Brad
Jon & Susiane
David & Janelle
Lee & Mele
Stacy & Simi
Jenny
Molly & Carlos
Hayley a & Spencer

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

MED SCHOOL UPDATE



"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler..."
~Henry David Thoreau


My husband has submitted his Primary Applications to Medical School and now 7 weeks later we're finally recieveing invitations to submit Secondary Applications. So far we have received requests from the following schools:

Lincoln Memorial University -Debusk, Tennesee
Pacific NorthWest University -Yakima, Washington* (top choice, wait-listed last year)
Rocky Vista University- Parker, Colorado
Des Moines University-Des Moines, Iowa
Arizona College of MidWestern University-Glendale, Arizona
Edward Via Virgina-Blacksburg, Virgina

We are still waiting to hear back from about 5 more schools. We're very excited and we will be happy to go anywhere we are accepted. I'm would prefer to go to WA because we have family there and it's not too hot or too cold. I'll be happy to go anywhere I can find a job since the economy is supposedly pretty bad in some areas of the US.
As of now we're just writing alot of essays. Pray for us, we need all the help we can get.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

My new sweet baby - Deriva!


What do you think about my little new baby Deriva?
MakeMeBabies.com - What will your baby look like?


I copied you Susiane! I'm baby hungry as well and I'm curious as to what my future child would look like. Isn't this hilarious? Are babies will definately be cuter!