Sunday, May 10, 2009

April 2009

Derek and I had a great month. We enjoyed Confrence, the Oakland mission reunion, Easter with family and visiting my mom in California. My mom begged us to visit one last time before we move away to West Virgina. Whenever we visit California, we binge on Seafood (thank goodness I married a seafood lover) and just relax. It was a short trip so we didn't get a chance to visit my mission or my buddies who live out in California.
Mom cooked us a big breakfast every morning, we always gain a few pounds while we're there. Here we are in the kitchen after a nice big meal.


This is my favorite picture, my mom bought me color stay lipstick and it is true to it's "stay" claim. We ate lunch, dinner, snacks and it stayed, we woke up the next morning and it was still on as if we had just put on a fresh application.

Thanks for treating us to a well needed vacation mom, we love you! Happy Mother's Day.

This month we have a lot to look forward to, i'll be running my first marathon next saturday and we plan to visit Georgia for my sister Nia and Kura's graduation. We'll be driving with our nephews so it should be quite entertaining.



Wish me luck!I really just want to finish the race, i'm not going to be too focused on time.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

March 2009 Update

March 1, 2009: Kura & Nia celebrated their 18th birthday! We’re so excited to attend their graduation in May. Nia would eventually like to become a chef she was recently accepted to Le Cordon Blue and Kura plans to join the Military. I love eating everything Nia cooks and Kura, I can’t wait to have a buff sister to back me up when I’m in trouble☺

March 15, 2009: We celebrated my Bff’s birthday…I won’t say her age, she claims to feel very old. I met Alithie in April 2006 shortly after I returned home from Costa Rica; my other Bff Susiane introduced her to me to her. We spent nearly every weekend together and became the closest of friends.
We decided to surprise Alithie by cooking dinner for her and her husband at their home in Logan. She was definitely surprised; I wish I got a shot of her face when she walked into her smoke filled apartment (I was busy trying to get the food ready). It was a nice get away; we had lots of fun together with our hubbys.

March 16, 2009: Derek and I started salsa lessons! I love, love, love salsa. I started dancing in college and my friends and I frequented salsa dance clubs. I learned to refrain myself from dancing at on my mission, Spanish people love fiestas. Once I returned home and was accepted to study abroad, I couldn’t wait to let lose in Central America (too bad I towered over the majority of males there).
Dance classes are great…a bit tortuous for my husband (although he doesn’t admit it), I listen to the rhythm, Derek counts the rhythm and sometimes it makes for a lack of coordination and a whole lot of awkwardness. We don’t look as smooth as the dancers liked on “Dancing with the Stars” but we’re getting better at ever class and we’re having fun!

March 26, 2008: Community Development Corporation of Utah sent me and the other Housing Counselors to Cucina’s for lunch and the Avenue SPA for a facial and a full body message (why? because we work our tails off to keep people out of foreclosure and it is high stress work). I had never received a facial or a full body massage; it was so relaxing I nearly fell asleep. I definitely plan to get a massage after I run the marathon.

March 28, 2009: Braxten and I ran our first race of the season. Braxten was the only 4 year-old who participated, he ran the one mile race in 9 minutes and he placed 5th in the age range of 5-8. I ran the 5k, I’ve slowed down a lot since last year but I still managed to place 2nd in my age group 21-29 (FYI: I’m not fast, there was only about 10 people in my age group) .



Later we celebrated Alicia’s 19th birthday, she visited from Lewis & Clark University in Washington. I didn’t take a picture of Alicia but I captured several of little Alec, he loves to ride in our new car and wrestle with his uncle Derek. He’s such a fun little boy.
We also visited the Stewarts for Losepina’s 8th Birthday. She had a swim party, I didn’t take a picture because I was busy enjoying little L.J and Andrew, I enjoy holding babies who are too young to squirm out of my arms.

March 29, 2009: Mom celebrates her 46th birthday! Happy birthday mom! Mom has become a huge fan of the The Biggest Looser, she of course roots for the Tongan cousins (and no we are not claiming the fame, we’re not related to them…well, at least not that we know of!) Mom has lost 20 lbs and hopes to continue losing. I plan to look as great as her when I’m 46.

March 30, 2009: I realize after 4 months of working 12 hours a day, I can’t do it anymore. My quality of life has been miserable. Once upon a time, I used to be organized and punctual now I’m lucky if I respond to phone messages, text messages…my alarm clock. My main job has become increasingly busy and by the time I’m done with my second job I’m ready for bed. I’m still juggling back and forth as to whether or not I should quit but I need to be more present in my personal life. Derek and I have so much to do before we move to West Virginia. I also need to get whipped into shape for my Marathon on May 16, 2009.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Our New USED Car...



We have been looking for a vehicle forever. Surprisingly things have been OK with just one car. I work close to home and most of the summer I rode my bike to work and during cool weather I'd have Derek drop me off and I'd run home.
We finally settled on this car because it's #1 Reliable (Derek spent weeks reading reviews about reliability. #2 spacious and we can fit up to three car seats in the back seat (Derek excitedly pointed that one out:)#3 It's cute!

We've already had several problems with it. We took it back to the dealer today. To be continued... (they may have some severely bad reviews coming there way!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Acceptance Party #2

Since Derek got accepted to Med School we have been so excited. We had a little party with my family this past weekend to celebrate. I've never really had a party at my apartment because its so small but I had one anyway. I figure one of these days I'll have a spacious home and we can have something to reminisce about...our humble beginnings in a 700 sq foot apartment.



I have a ton of cousins, so many that I really don't keep tabs on most of the distant ones. My mother was always close to her brother Seleti so naturally we were close to his 6 children. We spent nearly every weekend at their home and we have so many childhood memories together. The sounds of Bob Marley's "Buffalo Soldier" and the bland taste of boiled chicken, potatoes and mayonnaise (the Tongan condiment for every dish)remind me of the good ole times. It's fun to get together because we each remember different events. Last night we had a blast talking about the past. We concluded that Simi was the mischievous leader of all the ridiculous situations we got ourselves into. We laughed and laughed at some of the things we remember and embarrassed at some of the things that we regret doing.

The future Doctor Rodeback. When I made the cupcakes, I had left over blue marzipan Derek suggested that I make Viagra. It's a bit far but the pills on the cupcake are Viagra

The kids had a great time playing with one another.

Last but not least, I finally got to meet the new edition to the Fevaleaki family. This is little L.J isn't he so cute? These cute little kids make me excited to have children of my own.

Thanks everyone for all the yummy food that you brought. We should do this more often so that our children can have the same fun experience we had (minus all the craziness of course).

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

ACCEPTED!!!!!!


This is us today! This was after we went out to the Jazz game to celebrate, we had amazing tickets (row 20, too bad the Jazz lost to the Spurs) Were happy as ever (and tired)!! We so excited to be accepted to one of the top ten schools in America! I'm so proud of my husband:)

This picture was taken on the day of the interview, It was freezing so I couldn't convince my husband to take off his coat.


We skipped out on the inauguration to go site seeing around town. The building behind us is one of the first Carniege Halls in America.

Derek was accepted to West Virgina's Osteopathic Medical School today! We recognize the Lord's hand in our life we are so blessed and so grateful that the time has finally come. Thank you all for your prayers and support.

We will be hosting multiple celebrations for sure and your all invited:) Details to come.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Home Sweet Home

Derek and I flew out to Richmond, Virginia on Sunday night for Derek's interview for medical school. We met up with my old roommate Rochelle Flanigan and spent the night at her house. We were both excited for a break from the everyday rigors of our life, we're so tired of working and waiting to hear back from medical school. We flew in at night, so we didn't get to see much but the airport. Rochelle lives near the city, it pretty much looks like every other big city-lots of lights on sky high towers.



The following day we spent the morning and afternoon with Rochelle and her cute kiddos. Rochelle was my roommate my first year in college, the last time I saw her was before my mission farewell 6 years ago so we had a lot to catch up on. The town she lived in was influenced by the Colonial period. It was neat to see how different the homes were, they were tall and narrow, the road was cobblestone. I think of the movie "Pride & Prejudice", the beautiful dresses, the horse drawn carriages and their British accents.

Rochelle lent us her car, a luxurious a Volkswagen Jetta (compared to our car anyway). The seats were so comfortable, they were also heated! The car made our 3 hour drive were pretty comfortable. Before we left, Jamie (Rochelle's husband) told me there was nothing but bigots and malnutritioned children in West Virginia. His comment freaked me out but Jamie has always been a jokester, good thing I was able to see for myself that his comment was not true. If I could explain West Virginia in one word would be "hospitable". Everyone was so nice, I felt at home (minus the southern accent of course).

We visited the local museum and spoke to several locals. It was neat to learn about the local history, Derek's favorite part was the 58 lb gun used in the Civil War. Our tour guide Edna (what a southern name) even gave us her personal phone number to call her if Derek is accepted. She has connections to local housing.



West Virginia is beautiful.



On the day of the interview we were of course we were frazzled with nervousness. Derek and I had spent the night before in the hot tub reviewing potential questions. He tossed and turned most the night thinking of possible responses. At the admissions office, everyone was so nice, I've never seen so much energy and excitement come from a receptionist. The applicants from the city (most came from the East coast) thought she was unreal, having visited bigger cities I can see why they thought that.

We were taken on a tour of the school. It as freezing. I was impressed with their facilities, they had a room full of cadavers. Each cadaver has a pump so the fumes don't kill the med students because they spend so much time studying the cadavers. We interrupted students dissecting an optic nerve...I wanted to leave the room because it still stunk despite the suction tubes but I was getting a kick out of people assuming that I was the token brown girl applying to medical school. I think that experience inspired me to donate my body to science. I can't wait to tell my mom about that, she will freak out ( it's taboo in Tongan culture...or maybe just her culture).

I asked the tour guide about employment opportunities, he said " In a small town, you just have to take what you can get"...I guess I have to humble myself and work for Arby's...better yet Walmart. Lewisburg is small enough to not have any public transportation, not even taxis but big enough to have a Walmart. If or when Derek gets accepted, I will start sending out resumes right away. I'm determined to utilize the Bachelor's degree that I'm still paying for.

6 of the 8 students interviewing were women and they all looked so young. 3,000 people submitted application and West Virginia College of Osteopathic Medical School will be accepting 300 students this year. We've been praying like crazy, we want to get accepted this year, we're tired of wait lists and waiting to hear back from medical schools. Derek felt the interview went well, we don't want to get our hopes like we did last year. We will hear back from the school in a couple weeks, Tuesday will be the earliest.

We're both so exhausted physically, mentally and emotionally. We estimated that 30 hours of the trip was spent traveling to Virgina, from Virginia to West Virginia. Our flight home was 12 hrs counting the lay overs, right after the flight I had to rush home, shower and teach my Spanish Home buyer class at work. I didn't return home until 9:30pm. We're still recuperating, we just barley picked up our dog, we missed him so much but we haven't bothered to unpack.

We appreciate all the support, many of our friends and family prayed for us, several attended the temple with us before we left. We are so thankful for such great people in our lives.

P. S. Pictures will be posted later...I'm too exhausted right now.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Life with Skofield-Part 2



Yesterday was so beautiful, it would have been a waste of a sunny day if I didn't go for a run. When I mentioned my plans to Derek, he suggested that I take Skofeild with me. I decided to take my husbands advice, after all I need to start training Skofeild sooner or later. Skofeild is about 50 lbs now and he can nearly pull me off my feet. He has so much energy, he jumps wags his enormous heavy tail whenever I open the closet door because he assumes that he gets to go on a walk. Our attempt to run yesterday was frustrating at the time but humourus to think back on. I tied his leash around my waist in order to have more "control" of the walk/run. Skofeild is protective he'd launch out in loud, deep barks at anything that got near me, I almost fell flat on my face several times. I finally gave in and took him back home so that I can actually run a real run. I plan on running a half-marathon in April and a Marathon in May...anyone want to join me?

I don't know if it's the climate change...or maybe his rapid growth spurt but Skofeild is shedding like crazy. It drives me nuts because his fur is everywhere! It's on our couch, on our clothes, in our car and embedded in our carpet. I can remember how hesitant I was to sit on a fur infested couch when I was a mission. I definitely didn't want visitors to feel that way at my home. I found myself steam cleaning our carpet 2x a month. When I'd vacuum I'd pull up mounds of fur...it was like a whole other dog! We finally gave in and purchased a Dyson (the most purchased vacuum in America). It's known for it's durability and great suction power...hooray now I have clean carpet. It was an investment worth making!



Skofeild is still a puppy but he's as big as a full grown dog! This was taken last week...can you tell he's craving affection?